December 2011 - Holiday Letter

Another year…another letter.  You may be thrilled to hear that this year I will finally be keeping it brief.  I seem to be running out of time and if I ever what to gets these out on time I better move it!

William is growing daily; at least it feels like he is.  If we have to buy him pants one more time this year, I just might scream.  I think he will be taller than Russel before this year is out.  He is a junior at Coral Academy of Science – a local charter school he has attended since 7^th grade.  He is still into computers, engineering, robotics, legos, and video games.  In May he made his confirmation, using the name of Saint Joseph in honor of his grandfather.  This summer he began working as a cashier at Ichiban Japanese Steakhouse.  He stayed through September when we decided it was best to him to focus on school and just become a back-up cashier when they are in a pinch.  He has been doing very well in school this year although AP Physics has been a bit of a struggle.  They changed the Robotics Club into an actual class and he has been really enjoying himself this year.  He has also made some really good friends.  One of his classes is an SAT prep class that helps the kids understand how to navigate the test plus completing college applications and those dreaded essays.  He wasn’t thrilled but as his mother…I was.  He is still taking summer engineering classes at UNR and plans to attend in the fall of 2013.

Russel’s business is having a fabulous year.  I joke if it has a wire, battery or plug, he can (and will) fix it.  Most days he is running around so much he forgets if he is coming or going.  But his clients love and (who could ask for more).  He still teaches karate and helps at their tournaments and other events.  He is now also teaching the Coral’s junior high robotics team.  It has proven to be taxing…if he had any hair left it would be turning grey.  Regardless, he is having a good year.

I am happy to say I have now been with the District Attorney’s Office for six years.  Being a county employee is tough, between the pay cuts, lay-offs, and budget slashing it’s a wonder… But despite all that negativity I still love my job.  I get to use both my creative and analytical sides, which is fun.  I have few remaining accounting clients on the outside, just enough to keep my skills sharp.  I am trying to be a “good” girl and listen to my doctors.  My arthritis and asthma sometimes contradict each other but I am fortunate to have excellent doctors who care.  I still sing at church but have cut back much of my other volunteer work to focus on the art of relaxation.

We’ve had our ups and downs this year but continue to survive and maybe even (do I dare say it) thrive.  We have been scrimping and saving and couponing our little hearts out.  In January we will spend a few days in Disneyland…the last hurrah before William goes off to college (and bankrupts us).  Then budget season begins anew at the county and my nose will be to grindstone to find new ways to save money.

In the meantime, I hope you have a wonderful holiday season filled with peace, joy and happiness.  No matter which holiday you celebrate, may if be a happy one.

All of our love,

Vicky, Russ, & Will     

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, Joyous Kwanzaa, Blessed Saturnalia, Happy Holidays

The winter holidays seems to bring out the extremes in humanity – both the best and the worst of us.  There is the classic “my holiday is better than your holiday” and the visceral “I must get [fill in the blank hot toy] for my son /niece/grandchild/etc.”  But the spirit of this season can be summed up as celebration – a celebration of life, family, and survival.  There are years (if not centuries) of traditions for Christmas (religious), Kwanza, Solstice, Hanukkah and christmas (secular).  I have to stress that no one holiday or tradition is superior to the other.  I may celebrate Christmas as a Polish Catholic, but that is me and my family.  What you do this time of year is just as valid. 

In my family we enjoy a big meal on Christmas Eve which includes kielbasa, ham, pierogi, cauliflower, homemade applesauce, and oplatek.  Pierogi is a Slavic dumpling most commonly made with potatoes and cheese but can also be filled with meat, sauerkraut, or fruit.  Oplatek is a rectangular wafer similar to modern Christian Eucharistic hosts with pressed religious images.  These wafers are shared with everyone at the table with hugs, kisses and Christmas cheer.  We then attend Midnight Mass which I personally believe is one of the most beautiful services. Christmas day is filled with gifts and leftovers and visiting the homes of our loved ones.  I continue my mother’s tradition of giving three gifts to my son – she used to tell us three gifts were good enough for Jesus so it should be good enough for us. 

I also observe the 12 days of Christmas.  I bet most of you have no clue what the song really means.  Well, over the centuries the Christian celebration of Christmas has evolved. First of all, many of the symbols we now connect with Christmas (such as the decorated tree) began as symbols of other winter celebrations predating Christianity.  Also, traditions from other countries (such as Santa Claus) have become mainstream.  There is of course the whole controversy of moving the celebration to coincide with the Winter Solstice (as we all know Jesus was probably born in the Spring but we already had Easter).  And finally, the gift-giving traditions have changed.  During the Middle Ages, after the four weeks preparation (Advent) Christmas was just day one.  Christmas, and often gift giving, lasted 12 days - until Epiphany, which celebrates the day when the Magi find Jesus, Mary, and Joseph in Egypt and present gifts [bit of trivia, the Bible does not tell us how many came nor their names nor from where but because there were three gifts the assumption was born].   So the big gift giving day is January 6^th (in today’s calendar) – the 12^th day of Christmas.  Perhaps in these economic times it is good to not have 12 days of gift-giving…oh well, at least wait until after Epiphany to toss the tree and decorations..

We give gifts to say “Thank you,” or “I love you,” or even “I appreciate you.”  Sometimes the gift giving gets out of hand.  We try to out-do each other, going for the biggest, newest, or coolest.  We are swept up by the images we see on tv, in the ads, and online.  If you recall, the Grinch learned that is isn’t the “stuff” but the love that makes the season (read the original book, and skip the Jim Carrey movie).  The act of giving a gift should be an act of love.  Homemade gifts are the best…even a hug can be the best gift of all.  So stop, breath, and don’t go too nuts this year.  Tell your loved ones what they mean to you.  Do something nice for someone.  If you are blessed this year, give back - contribute to a food bank, donate you gently used items, drop your change in that red bucket, or even adopt a family in need.  If you don’t know anyone personally who needs help this year, the reach out to organizations such at the boys and girls Club – they always have families in need.

So, as I celebrate the last week in Advent, may I wish you peace and joy this season and in the new year.  A heart felt thank you to my friends and family who bless me everyday with their love and support.  I am truly blessed and what you to know how special you are.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, Joyous Kwanzaa, Blessed Saturnalia, Happy Holidays

Muppets – They’re back

We watched the new Muppet movie with a bit of apprehension.  Writers Jason Segel and Nicolas Stroller were better known for their bathroom humor in films such as Get Him to the Greek and Forgetting Sarah Marshall.  Their version of the Rat pack includes Seth Rogen, Paul Rudd and Judd Apatow.  So you have to wonder how these guys will pull off The Muppets.  However I am not one of those people who mistakenly state that the Muppets are kiddie-fare.  Hensen had quite a sense of humor - watch the first season of Saturday Night Live and you will see.  Even the original Muppet TV show has some subversive humor.  I loved it all.  I have loved everything Hensen and Frank Oz created (even Labrynth).  So, Jason and Nicolas had a hurdle with me.

Jason Segel is a Muppet fanatic and has wanted to do a movie for years.  Having read some of the incarnations over the past few years, I am glad it took a while to get the movie into development.  Everything had to be just right.  Although I had my doubts about his writing, I thought Jason as one of the stars was great.  His character Marshall on How I Met Your Mother is the perfect simpleton and goof-ball.  So we have to problem believing he has a muppet for a brother (Walter).

I was pleasantly surprised – this movie was fabulous.  Amy Adams is the sweet, mechanically-talented grade school teacher who is in love with Segel’s Gary.  They travel to LA for their 10^th dating anniversary.  They bring Walter, Gary’s muppet-obssessed brother with them and they visit the Muppet Studios.  There they discover the studio is in disrepair and a bad guy (Chris Cooper) is about to implement his dastardly scheme.  The rest of the movie is about bringing the Muppets back together and raising the money needed to save their studio.  There is singing, dancing, waka-waka jokes, and a lot of nostalgia.  The songs are often goofy and sometimes bittersweet.  I had a blast.  We all laughed, including my teenage son.  The audience we were with was obvious all having a good time. There are a dozen cameos and several inside jokes which will keep you watching.

Living here in Reno, there are some interesting jokes just for us.  Fozzy Bear is performing in Reno in a bottom-of-the-barrel casino.  His dressing room is the alley behind the casino where you hear gun shots followed by rain (boy, did that bring howls from the audience here).  Then when Fozzy is depressed and says he doesn’t want to go back to Reno there is an unexpected laugh I don’t think the writers planned.  Everyone in our audience had a good sense of humor and there was no offense taken (I think you need to have a certain amount of self-deprecation to survive in Reno).  FYI - the movie makers clearly have not been to Reno (except to get the fabulous shot of our arch).  It was cool though, almost like being in the movie (hee hee).

So, go see this movie.  Those who grew up with the muppets will enjoy the nostalgia and kids today will discover the amazing world of Jim Hensen.  GO!

Once Upon A Time...Maybe

I have been watching ABC's new TV show "Once Upon A Time" with a smidgen of hope and a dash of anticipation.  As a huge fan of Grimm's collection of fairy tales (the real ones not the tamed down versions) I found the premise compelling.  Reminiscent of Brigadoon, there is an enchanted town in Maine filled with story book characters...lost in time and space.  The "fairy tale" story is told in flashbacks to explain the modern-day actions of characters.  There are some familiar names, Snow White, Prince Charming, Wicked Queen, Rumpelstiltskin, Red Riding Hood, Grandma, etc.To avoid spoilers, I won't delve deeper.

I really like the fairy land story - more than the modern tale.  In general the acting, writing, and characters are fine but it's taking too long.  I might have liked the story better as a mini series a la "Tin Man" the SciFi channel produced a few years back.  I am finding myself exasperated by the drag factor.  Still, I plan on giving it some more time to grow on me.  I don't often watch episodic TV any more (primarily documentaries and fun stuff like Mythbusters) so maybe I am just not used to waiting for a plot line to finish.

I do hope it gets better. I still like the premise.

The Countdown

Only 56 days until Disney Land.  I don't care what anyone else says...DL is the happiest place on earth.  In the past 10 years I have been lucky enough to go 3 times...2001, 2007, and 2009.  In 2001 I was able to get a sweet deal because no one was travelling after 9-11.  In 2007 and 2009 I saved up and did extra side work to pay for the trips.  This year we saved and saved...I wasn't sure we would make it (I had yet another pay cut and could not work as much after hours due to my health).  But we cut back (a lot) and put every penny aside. Whoo hoo the trip is booked and I am overjoyed.  The boys like DL but not nearly the obsession of mine. Hee hee. I expect this to be our last DL trip for awhile.  William is more important and that boy is going to college!!

I am Number Four...NOT

We rented this sci-fi story based on a novel of the same name.  Aliens hiding on earth, running from an evil oppressor seemed right up our alley.  Alex Pettyfer plays John Smith, a young alien hiding with his guardian (Timothy Olyphant) from Mogadorians - a species who are violent like Klingons and obsessive like Borg (except they seek annihilation not assimilation).  Dianna Aragon plays the John's love interest Sarah; Callan McAuliffe is the geeky buddy Sam.  Teresa Palmer rounds out the cast as Number 6 (another alien).


I wanted to like this movie.  The story itself is fine, some of the dialogue is stilted and over-the-top obvious.  The dramatic pauses between the characters and also within the action are way too long.  Something which could have been accomplished in a glance in stretched out to an awkward moment.  Half of this film could have ended on the cutting room floor and been a much better piece.    I would expected more from director D. J. Caruso.


I liked Alex's John - although he brooded just a tad too much (maybe he should of watched James Dean in A Rebel Without a Cause for some hints on just the right amount).  I couldn't see what John saw in Sarah and Sam's character was a stereotype and should have been developed more (especially since he becomes so crucial).  The Mulder-wannabe is so much more than comic relief.  The character I really enjoyed was Number 6.  She is not on the screen much but has the most to say (figuratively as she barely speaks).  Plus, she really kicks butt!  The ending battle is by far the best part of the movie.


There is so much potential and but not enough is delivered.  I don't recommend this movie.

Broken Silence

So I haven't written anything in a while.  It's that horrid combination of tired and busy.  My health issues and it's medications certainly make "crazy-Vicky" a tad less hyper.  The asthma affected my voice, making it hard to sing and even talk.  Ironically, it seemed to affect even my hands and my ability to write my words.  It truly silenced me.  Hard to believe for I am rarely silent.

Silent no more :)